I'm willing to bet You're smart and strong and in control of most aspects of your life!

You likely have incredible kids and work hard in your chosen career, whether that’s working outside the home, or staying home to raise your children.

Everything might look good on the outside — perfect even — but, if you’re reading this, I’m guessing that you (like so many other women) are living with a secret stress and shame, the weight of which is starting to pull you under.

You’re miserable in your marriage and you don’t know what to do.

Your husband might tell you that you’re the problem, and you know there are things you could work on, but are you really the whole problem? Isn’t it supposed to be 50/50?

Maybe you keep reading about narcissism and you secretly wonder if your husband might be a narcissist.

But if he is, then what does that make you?

How on earth did you get here?

This is all so confusing!

I'm Dr Sue Palmer-Conn, aka The Divorce Doctor. I've been working with hundreds of women like you, all over the world, for fifteen years.

I've been in your shoes myself

I divorced at the age of 50 after a 25-year marriage. My husband was controlling, not physically but emotionally, and borderline narcissistic personality disordered. I was the first of my family and friends to get divorced. I didn't know where to turn. After I divorced, I started a new, very successful, career and alongside that developed a busy practice working with mid-life women thinking about and going through divorce. I am a multi-award-winning divorce coach, whose accolades include 'Global Divorce Coach of the Year'. I now run my own Divorce Coaching Academy training the next generation of divorce coaches.